Part 1 - Some questions about your husband:
What is his current age?
Considering his age, how would you describe his appetite for sex?
Is it greater or less than yours?
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Greater than mine
Less than mine
Does your husband make you cum?
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Yes
No
How would you briefly describe your husband’s looks and body?
How does that compare to when you were first married?
How would you describe your current level of physical attraction to your husband?
If you could change one physical attribute about your husband what would it be?
In terms of your pleasure, how good of a lover is your husband?
How does this compare to when you were first married?
How creative is your husband when it comes to sex? How often are new wrinkles added?
To illustrate, list some sexual techniques, practices, and/or enticements that your husband has introduced to you in recent years? Which have you found most pleasurable and which have you not?
What known fetishes does your husband have?
What is one thing your husband does sexually that really drives you crazy -- in a good way?
What is one thing your husband does sexually that really drives you crazy -- in a bad way?
Could you see your husband agreeing to be a sexual submissive, answering to you and doing only what you command? Explain.
How large is your husband (inches)?
If your husband’s size had to change, would you rather he be...
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1 inch Bigger
1 inch Smaller
Could you see your husband agreeing to be a sexual Dom, commanding you to do as he says, and only what he says? Explain.
Does your husband cum with strong P-muscle contractions (shooting) or weak P-muscle contractions (oozing)?
How often do you believe your husband masturbates?
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Daily
At least once a week
A couple of times a month
At least once a month
A handful of times a year
Maybe once a year or so
Very infrequently, less than once a year
Would you like to watch your husband masturbate? Would it turn you on?
Part 2 - Rate your husband’s performance from 1-10, with a word or two adjective to describe the rating, in each of the following categories:
Kissing
Massaging
Intercourse Pace
Intercourse Duration
General Foreplay
Submission
Creativity
Petting (not during sex)
Cunnilingus
Dominance
Breast Play
Positions
Fingering
Non-Physical ability to make you hot
Physical ability to make you hot
Would you consider your husband to be sexually:
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Repressed
Inhibited
Reserved
Inept
Normal
Creative
Uninhibited
Wild
Perverted
Part 3 - Rank, in order (1-23), what you believe to be the appeal of the following fantasies to your husband (not to you), and label how strongly each would appeal to him as either “high, med-high, medium, med-low, or low.” Then, answer “yes” or “no” to how you believe your husband (not you) would answer the question “if suggested by, or agreeable to your wife, would you consider trying this fantasy even once?” Also, to your knowledge, if any of these fantasies have already occurred during the course of your marriage then label those “done” instead of answering “yes” or “no.” Each answer will have three parts: the rank, the level of appeal, and if you think he’d try it.
Fantasy
How he’d Rank it?
Appeal Rating for him?
Would he Try it?
Watching while another man satisfies you sexually
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1
2
3
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5
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10
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23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Watching you with another woman
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1
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3
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10
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15
16
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20
21
22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Allowing you to have another man (with his knowledge, but without him present)
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1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
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12
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17
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19
20
21
22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Allowing you to have a woman/woman erotic encounter (with his knowledge, but without him present)
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1
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5
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9
10
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12
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17
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22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Sucking a cock
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10
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22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having a Male-Female-Female Threesome
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2
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8
9
10
11
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19
20
21
22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having a Male-Male-Female Threesome
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1
2
3
4
5
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7
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
16
17
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19
20
21
22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having a Homo-Erotic encounter
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1
2
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9
10
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12
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23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having sex with an attractive stranger
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22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having sex with an attractive friend of yours, or relative of yours
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Participating with you in group sex
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Being bound, blind-folded, teased, and devoured
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
You having him try on panties or lingerie, or perhaps wearing panties out to dinner with you
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Performing anal sex
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having you, his wife, exposed partially by dressing provocatively when in a potentially public setting where no one knows you (for example, you wearing a low-cut top so a waiter or patron might see down your blouse)
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1
2
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Being a submissive/slave to you
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1
2
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5
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9
10
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12
13
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19
20
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22
23
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Being a dominant and having you as his (sex) slave
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1
2
3
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5
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7
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9
10
11
12
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14
15
16
17
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Having sex, however discreetly, in public
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
To tie you up, blindfold you, and tease you for as long as he likes
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Voyeurism, watching you masturbate
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Voyeurism, by chance, surreptitiously watching another woman masturbate
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Voyeurism, by chance, surreptitiously watching another couple have sex
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Being pegged by you (anal intercourse from a strap-on)
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1
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High Appeal
Medium-High Appeal
Medium Appeal
Medium-Low Appeal
Low Appeal
Thank you for completing Part 3, we know it takes some time. Does your husband know that you are participating in this study?
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Yes, my husband knows
No, my husband doesn't know
The questions about your husband’s fantasy interests - and your perceptions of them - are very important to this segment and the study overall. What is powerful data for our study (and future algorithms) is how your husband would actually rank and rate the fantasies in Part 3. Therefore, we will contact him and attempt to have him complete a short survey (just Part 3). If he knows you are participating we will let him know it is part of the overall study. If he does not know then we will invite and entice him to complete it in other ways. In either case we will not let him know that you have answered the same or similar questions. It will be more under the category of “we’re collecting data on popular men’s fantasies.” Please let us know what the best email address is to contact him:
Part 4 - Some questions for you
The first eleven fantasies listed in Part 3 involve 3rd parties. Given what you perceive to be your husband’s interest level in each, and balanced with your comfort zone, which 3 (in order) of the eleven would you most likely agree to or perhaps “surprise” your husband with (excluding any that have been marked “Done”)?
Excluding any that are marked as “Done,” and not considering whether or not they would or could happen in real life, picturing or thinking of your husband in which five fantasies turn you on the most (list them in order, hottest first)?
Excluding any that are marked as “Done,” and not considering whether you’d actually ever do them: turning the fantasies around where necessary, picturing or thinking of yourself in which fantasies turns you on the most (choose up to five, and feel free to list any not listed above)?
Considering only those marked “Done,” which one or two did YOU most enjoy? Least enjoy?
