1. How aroused are you right now?
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Already have cum
Highly Aroused
Significantly Aroused
Aroused
Somewhat Aroused, but not much
Not aroused
2. How old were you the first time you used a vibrator/dildo?
3. Do you need to reapply lube to your insertable? (if yes please do so)
please select
Yes
No
4. Have you ever spent a night (or more) in a hotel alone (away from your husband)?
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Yes
No
5. Approximately, how many total nights did you stay alone in a hotel without your husband during your last time away?
6. How many of those nights did you masturbate?
7. Knowing that you would be alone, did you pack and bring anything on the trip in anticipation of your masturbatory sessions (toys, lube, computer for surfing, dvds, special lingerie, etc.)? Please list any provisions you brought
8. When we are away and by ourselves our subconscious often times allows us to deviate our thoughts and actions from our typical routine. Please describe the most risque thing you did on the trip (it could be anything from picking someone up, to dressing in a way where you knew you looked good, to fantasizing about a complete stranger, or indulging a more “taboo” fantasy). Also, please describe your masturbation sessions and what they might have included that was different from a “typical” home masturbation session for you.
Please consider the following scenario and respond to the questions below.
You and your husband are on a much needed relaxing, romantic vacation. You’ve enjoyed a couple of days of complete unwinding and have finally been able to clear your mind. One morning, while soaking in the warm sun and the refreshing ocean breeze on your chaise, your husband surprises you with an appointment for a two-hour sensual, full-body massage with the best masseur on the island scheduled for that afternoon. He reminds you that you are not in the U.S. and full-body means you are wearing nothing, and sensual means that more erotic elements to the massage are allowed since the parameters of how a massage can be given in your current location are much less restrictive than back in the States.
The Masseur does not disappoint. He is exceptionally handsome and fit, wearing a white polo and what amounts to loosely fitting white sweat shorts, and his skill is unequaled. He is painstakingly thorough, exceedingly unhurried as he methodically works over the whole of your body in such a manner that you cannot recall ever feeling so pampered and relaxed. And the massage is wonderfully sensual as well. After he starts he offers to wear a blindfold for your modesty and, as he puts it, allow his hands to more intuitively respond to your body. Many people, men and woman, naturally become aroused during massage, but this is absolute bliss. The care with which he combines both pressure and tantalizingly soft caress is as stimulating a cocktail as your body has ever experienced. With amazing aplomb his hands glide over you. Enchanting strokes across your nude body that at times come titillatingly close to your most sensitive areas are delivered with the poise and assurance of a true Master. You delight in this heavenly state of carefree arousal. Periodically, when he leans over your motionless body, his shorts, and the flaccid member within them, brushes against your prone hand. You chalk it up to a pleasurable coincidence. From the intoxicating relaxation, and the practiced craftsmanship of his fingers, you find yourself in a dampened, wanton state as he manipulates, probes, and encircles the small of your back and your inner thighs. It’s peaceful, it’s pleasurable, and it’s a turn on. You are charged with erotic electricity. Sensing this, he narrows his focus. He leans over you once more, his still flaccid but growing cock resting innocuously against your hand as he slows his strokes, and his hands deliberately, meticulously work their way up your inner thigh. You’re lost in delight, and then once, as he crosses over from your thigh to your buttock, the outside of his pinky lightly and innocently brushes over your pussy. You flinch, though you’re not sure if it’s from the surprise of the touch, or from your near state of ecstasy. He then reaches back and picks up a handwritten note that was resting on the table behind him. He places it in front of you and returns to the kneading and caressing of your thighs and buttocks. You sigh at the welcomed return of his hands and look at the card. It reads: “Honey, the love of my life, this sensual massage is for your complete enjoyment. You have my permission, in fact it’s my desire and request, that you allow and do all that you desire to make this the most fulfilling respite imaginable. Relax and have a wondrous time. The Masseur is agreeable to do all you are comfortable with and nothing more. With love, your husband.”
9. Does this sound like an enjoyable massage?
In your relaxed and aroused state, and knowing that your husband wants you to fully enjoy yourself, do you allow:
10. yourself to be more sensually and erotically massaged than during a typical massage session?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
11. your labia to be expertly massaged?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
12. your clitoris to be sublimely and softly manipulated?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
13. your hand to remain harmlessly against the edge of the table so that it comes in continued contact with his shorts?
please select
Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
14. the sensitive tissues from the perineum (just below the vagina) through the anus and inner buttocks to be teased and lightly rubbed?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
15. your breasts to be massaged?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
16. two fingers to be inserted to delicately and precisely massage your g-spot?
please select
Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
17. yourself an orgasm or “happy ending”?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
18. as he is stimulating you, your hand to turn to feel more fully his now erect penis?
please select
Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
19. your clitoris to be softly and lightly kissed?
please select
Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
20. his shorts to be removed so you can more freely stroke his cock and feel his firm butt and thighs?
please select
Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
21. your body to recover and enjoy multiple orgasms?
please select
Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
22. enough stroking of his penis so that his breathing becomes notably quicker and ultimately enough that he cums on your body, all while still massaging and stimulating you?
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Yes, absolutely, that would be so hot!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
23. while on your stomach, his penis to enter and fill you from behind while still having your buttocks, back, and the sides of your breasts massaged?
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Yes, absolutely!
Yes, I believe so
Probably, but not sure
Probably not, but maybe given the heat of the moment
No
24. Would you ever ask him to remove his blindfold. Why or why not, and at what point?
When you masturbate next, as you feel yourself become highly aroused, play/tweak one or both nipples. Continue to do this, with increasing speed or pressure, up to and through orgasm.
You may leave the dildo in or remove it now, it is your choice. Please pause the music player. Click the icon to watch a short video and adjust the volume as necessary. Then answer the last few questions. Remember, the video needs to play in its entirety.
26. Describe, in moderate detail, how the massage above would ideally unfold for you.
27. Please revisit each of the questions 10-24 above, and explain which answers might change, and how they might change, if your husband stayed in the room to observe your massage (but still giving you permission to do anything you desire).
28. How old were you when you first masturbated? First orgasmed?
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